Windlass

Women nest.  It’s been our purpose since the beginning of time.  The bond between mother and child is impermeable, indelible, infused. In fact, it could be argued that if women didn’t bond with their children, the species would be at risk for extinction. It needs to be this way.

Yes, the world has evolved.  Yet we women, whether we choose to have children or not, remain the dependable, stable anchors for our families, keeping everything running smoothly, while satellites in the form of loved ones orbit around us. Many of us revel in this role, and fill our days making others happy.

But are we making ourselves happy?

If the answer is no, it’s time to do something about it.  To quote one of my favorite poets, Mary Oliver, “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”

I believe it is noble and just to be devoted to our families and those we love, but not at the expense of ourselves. Shaping who we are around the perceived expectations of others is limiting, deflating, and an incredible waste of the unlimited potential inside each of us.

It’s time to think about where your passion lies, and map a course to get you there. Sure, it’s scary, but the rewards are worth it. My goal with this blog is to provide inspiration and ideas for action to get you where you want to go. 

We all have the power to lift our anchors and sail.