Bustle

It is three days after Christmas; the front door closed behind the last planned guest of the year yesterday evening. I’m lingering on a photo in my Instagram feed of a beautifully painted teacup perched on a table beside a glittering, decorated evergreen.  The photographer reminds us that Christmas actually starts, not ends, on Christmas Day, and writes about how much she loves this post-holiday peacefulness, this time to be still.

I recall, not twenty-four hours earlier, asking myself how fast I can get the ornaments boxed up and leave a trail of pine needles from the living room to the curb. Only pure exhaustion prevents turning this thought into action.  The build-up to December 25th is so protracted, I’m not surprised when on Christmas Eve morning my coffee is presented to me in the white Starbucks cup of ordinary time; the store has run out of this year’s controversial red cup before we even get to Christmas Day!  Yet, there is never enough time.

I’ve been spending every waking, non-working moment since Thanksgiving making lists, amassing the precise materials and quality ingredients for my artistic creations, assembling greeting cards, baking, freezing and packaging cookies, planning menus, buying groceries, preparing feasts, decking, cleaning and clearing the halls, hiding in cabinets, closets and cupboards all evidence that a family actually lives in my home, all for the sake of hosting festive holiday gatherings. Cyber-shopping is squeezed in somewhere; gifts are hastily wrapped at the last minute.  At one point I remember thinking taking the time to attend parties is eating into my time to prepare for parties. No wonder I am salivating over the idea of a few minutes to savor the fruits of my labor.

And so I’m thinking differently this morning.  A snow and freezing rain mix is pelting the windows, propelled by a stiff, howling wind.  No one is going outside. After a warm, green December, it’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas. I, too, can sip a warm cup of tea in front of my own twinkling Christmas tree.  Lap tops, after all, are designed to sit in our laps.

Everything up until today is for others.  What if I take the time between now and Twelfth Night to absorb the beauty of the season, to live in stillness?  It’s time to be kind to myself, to remind myself of all the good I’ve accomplished in the past year, to take inventory of everything and everyone I am grateful for, to forgive myself for all my frailties, to set goals for the coming year that respect my limits as a human being, to connect with those who make me better. Isn’t this what the season is about?